now. Mhm. Where you’re communicating with me. I can’t do that. I ain’t never been. That’s ridiculous. It’s impossible to do that. No, I never said it’s impossible. I’m just That’s not realistic. If it’s not realistic, meaning it can’t happen. People do it. If it’s not realistic, we got him in. Got him in a blender. Do you know my reality? Yeah. Tell me. Tell me your reality. Okay.

I have three baby mas. Okay. I’ve been labeled a homebreaker. Why you creating broken homes? Why you ain’t marrying none of these women? My fear of divorce is greater than than my desire to get married to get married. you know, having this opportunity, one of the one of the, you know, content pieces that I did see was the thing that you did on Shannon Sharp, right? And in long story short, if if nobody’s seeing it, it’s about temptation. Can we speak about that? Yeah, for sure.

 One of the greatest downfall of men is what? Lust. Sexual temptation. Yep. And unfortunately, we don’t we’re unaware that science has shown us that lust uh when you’re a slave to it, it negatively impacts the prefrontal cortex, which affects our decision making skills. So, you look at David in his life. Here it is. He’s king. You have he had a a concubine, right? Okay. Many wives.

Yeah. He did hund Listen. So, now listen. No. No. Not concubines. Concubines. I’m sorry. Plural. There you go. Now look what it did to his mind. One of his warriors, you know, where I’m from, that’s that’s a worthy offense to kill David. Mhm. You know, you going to sell out your boy for some sex.

 Was it Basheba? Yeah. And Uriah was the warrior. Because he couldn’t get away with it, he had Uriah. Well, uh yeah. Uh uh Joab put Uriah on the front lines to get him killed. Get him killed. I say that because here it is 2025. We still struggle with the same thing. My brother, my second brother was murdered.

 Major drug dealer, millionaire. The easiest way to set up any man. Easiest way to get an attractive woman. Yep. We so foolish in the mind that we led by our penis, the lust, no sexual self-control. And so when I saw brother Shannon and because I don’t meet these brothers, I don’t speak on things that I don’t know. I think that’s unfair to them.

 You know, I’ve seen someone do that about me. It’s like, you don’t even understand what I was going through with my mother. All I could speak on was just the lack of sexual self-control that we all need. Mh. Um, I see it affect the boys that I work with, how you have good fathers, but because of the lack of sexual self-control or even even deeper, brother, it falls into a lack of self-love, if we really deal on the psychological level, what makes you uh uh become a letharial or a man who’s promiscuous that he doesn’t even value his own temple, that he got to sleep

with everyone else for affirmation. When I see the damage, I find it fascinating that he had this conversation with Shannon Sharp on the back of the lovely young Only Fans model taking advantage of the situation to extract funds from him. That’s the type of real life coaching and or mentoring that many of us men need.

 To have it done on a platform and not decades earlier when Shannon should have heard it is a different conversation. But I find it even more fascinating that he’s having this conversation with Cam Newton. Let’s see how he responds that it does to his sons and then the ill effects of that and their grades and then how uh statistics show us that homes without fathers the boys are at a greater risk of being incarcerated and the the daughters are uh more likely to have where to get pregnant uh young and then also reach puberty before it’s time which is now linked they scientists say is linked to depression and so the reason I wanted to speak on

it was not to con condemn brother Shannon was like look what can we learn from my brother you know and we’re so quick in society as you were saying look at the content but not the context this has been going on for centuries beginning of time why is it keep happening facts brother was on his way to sign what a $40 million contract for a podcast or more than that yeah okay and we still not him we see a good-looking woman.

Mhm. Fall that just happened to us. I want to hit that. The scriptures say a man without self-control is like a city without walls. You know in ancient times the walls were the protection of the city. So without self-control your mind is impenetrable to see your weaknesses, your flaws. You can’t even have the foresight or the wisdom to see that if I make this decision, this is going to cost me not only my wife, my family, not only my reputation, not only my business, but for most importantly for me, the scriptures say our God is

blasphemed amongst the Gentiles because of us. I got too much to lose. Hence why I teach men it ain’t good enough just to be in love with your wife that’s going to keep you on the path. You got to fear the most high. We have this concept as men. What? I’m going hold you accountable, bro. You hold me accountable, right? Mhm.

 That’s impossible unless I plan to live every second of my day with you. The only one can hold us accountable truly, excuse me, truly is the Holy Spirit, the spirit of the most high. What we can do is hold each other responsible. So if I need accountability when I ain’t around y’all, when I ain’t with my wife who’s beautiful, intelligent, industrious, my right hand with our nonprofit, why would I want to ever risk that? But more so, my life is over once my actions cause his name to be blasphemed.

 So I tell men the key to controlling that first is to dig deep. Why you got to be promiscuous? Why do you feel that you got to sleep with every woman you see? Where does that come from? And typically when you get men to really dig deep come from a father’s body language never really getting affirmation from their dad or affection from their mother which is the mother wound as well. Abuse, abandonment.

This makes us feel good. It’s the dopamine. But every time you get caught, you have a divestment of dopamine. And we’re like sheep going to the slaughter as Solomon, who else couldn’t control himself, lost the kingdom over some sex, brother. And that’s what I want brothers to see.

 But that’s why I try to dig deep because we just want to just deal with the sex piece. It’s not that. It’s what we don’t really love ourselves. Especially this is deep. I I used to just think it was just us, but it’s it’s a man thing. It’s brothers of all walks of life. Yeah. Wait a minute. I can’t I can’t skip this no more.

 Cam’s I’ve actually never seen this and I’ve done like maybe four or five different reviews of his podcast. I’ve never seen his body language like this. This is like literally my body language when I’m in boxing and I take a smooth clean liver shot, right? And I’m just like bent over, doubled over from the amount of pain that I’m experiencing. And it’s almost like the masculinity that Mr.

Jason Wilson is demonstrating in his words, right? Although there’s some out there that are looking at this that are not religiously anchored. He obviously is. So that’s where he’s getting a lot of his teachings, moralities, his degree of integrity, his learnings from.

 But nevertheless, whatever it is that you believe in, we can all agree and we can just look at information and data. Whether you look at the most current public executions of men is that they more often fall because of their lack of eggplant discipline. Cam Newton fall from grace or fall from power, fall from a authority, fall from status, fall from financials due to lack of eggplant discipline.

 Cam Newton has received a lot of criticism in regards to his lack of eggplant discipline throughout his life. So, I think hearing this information from a strong brother like Mr. Jason Wilson is like literally like like a liver shot. My man Cam look like he about to on himself. All right, let’s keep going. Different shades of color.

 We’ve been conditioned to be performers from us as far as slavery. It’s just doing what masters say. Boy, get over there and have sex with Sheba. God, I need another slave and you go do that. That intergenerational behavior travels down the lineage. Damn. And brothers like us with influence, if we don’t say it, they don’t know. More so than say it. If we don’t show it, they don’t do it. They don’t do it.

 Look at Can we take it there? Yeah. You’re the one with the iPad, brother. I don’t have no notes. Good response. Let’s go there. I came here for you. Say less. Yeah, you my guy. Let’s Let’s take it down. Okay. I think I’m more relatable to Shannon Sharp than the average man. Okay, cuz you’re famous. Life’s all about leveling up.

No disrespect, but let’s skip the ad real quick cuz I want to get right back up into this conversation. All right, hold on. Here we go. It’s premium cigars. All right. In this particular situation, it’s easy for a person to condemn. It’s easy for a person to kind of look at a situation and say what they wouldn’t do without having the opportunity to do was person who got exposed by an opportunist. Sure.

 Some would say some would also say hey no what he did was not right. He has to be held responsible for his actions. The thing that I always have as a resource in my life is my father. Before he goes on to his father, essentially what Cam Newton is saying is he compares himself to Shannon Sharp because he has a ton of other options, like more options than the average man.

 So therefore, because of his visibility, his status, his money, he’s got these options that would be similar to a Shannon Sharp. And what he’s doing is trying to relinquish accountability through choices and options. But my brother, that’s not what discipline is. Discipline is consistent and it is persistent irrespective of your lack of options or the excuse me surplus of options.

 What you have is selective discipline. You’re disciplined enough to achieve pro football and there’s a lot of luck and talent associated with that as well. But then also when it comes to lustful nature and decisions and choices that you make with that nature, your discipline is not the same.

 The activity or the path that Jason is trying to set you on is to understand the difference between the two. You cannot remove or obfiscate accountability when it comes to self-control unless you acknowledge that you have less control of self when it comes to that nature, that lustful nature. My father has been married for 40 plus years. He tell us that every Sunday dinner, right? My mother only knows my father.

 Uh my mother’s father introduced my father to his calling as a pastor. And when we have heart-to-he heart conversations about my inability uh to get married or settle down, the things that are kind of brushed away is like, “Oh, you don’t have self-control. You don’t have discipline.” Mhm. Okay. But I I asked this and I say that to you also, too, Mr. Jason.

when you go certain places like people really wouldn’t know who you are respectfully n you’re wrong go ahead I’m just I’m just messing with you I’m trying to make I’m just trying to make I’m trying to make a point yes sir and the point is when you talk or when there’s discussions about how a man can fall victim Yes.

It’s and and let me go back because that did not sound right. No, no. I appreciate it. I’m talking I’m talking I’m not talking to you per se, but I’m talking to the average man to the No, no, no, no. These are conversations that I have with my friend. No, no, no. I’m saying I I like Listen, brother. I appreciated what you said.

Yeah. Yeah. I I apologize for interrupting. I I’m saying I understand where you’re going. Meaning you brothers, the temptation is greater. Am I correct or No, that is that is absolutely Yeah. Right. Okay. Great.

 But it’s it’s it’s one of those things that when I had these these discussions with my father, a person who is the most influential person in my life, there’s not things where it’s like, yeah, but it’s always with a butt though. And going like this is the topic of Shannon Sharp, right? And I’m not saying what Shannon Sharp was was was good, bad, or indifferent. What I am saying is I can relate to falling victim to the lust and through that when going back to the discussion of like hey when you go places nobody really would know but for me that’s a part of my lifestyle mixing mingling uh networking being different places and saying hey man you

know we got to go to dinner leads to different opportunities. Hey, let’s talk about business. All right, cool. Whether it’s on golf course, whether it’s in a conference room, whether it’s at a bar, whether it’s wherever. Business can be taking place any place. And I think the tough part is when you’re actually in that situation, if you knew what you will find out, you definitely wouldn’t do.

 But to say, “Hey, you don’t have discipline.” Yeah. Triggering given the circumstances that one person has been in versus another person being. No, no, no. He just doesn’t like it. Now, I get the idea that he’s more visible. Therefore, there’s more options that exist. But let’s take it outside of Cam Newton.

 You guys remember the co-play that happened like what is that like two or so months ago? All right. where they were up in the stadium and the CEO of astronomer was caught having an affair with the chick and both like the astronomer CEO and the chick right like she wasn’t a stone cold stunner right so the point still remains is that irrespective if you have the status and the visibility of Cam Newton or if you’re a CEO at a company right or if you are the head of a department the same things apply is is that if you get into a place where you have things to lose well now you have to change up your understanding or your accountability

when it comes to your own discipline. And if you are a person that is a mo a man that’s a mover and a shaker and you’ve established credibility within your name, you might find other women that want to be attached within that. But if you compromise what it is that you’re doing because now you have something to lose and risk your opportunities because of your decisions that you make with that lovely young lady.

 Well, if it ends up biting you in the ass, then you have to deal with those consequences versus the consequences of remaining disciplined, stoic, within frame and right on the straight and narrow path. That’s Mr. Jason Wilson’s point. That’s all I say. Okay, good. Okay, let’s You were wrong about me going places and not being recognized. Maybe not to your level. Of course, it shouldn’t be as equal as that.

Yeah. No, it’s not. But I’ve been in situations in LA with my brother Matt Barnes. Mhm. And my good friend uh Vic Smooth Brother as well. Women literally like, “Where y’all from? What you brother the janitor buff at a school?” Yeah. teachers want to holl at. Same temptation. I’ve been in situations where I’m talking in rooms with women wanting a man who can actually tap into her inner being, her thoughts that isn’t just a monofaceted male or a male with just one gear. All he can do is hump on. Right. At first, I thought he was going to lose the point because he was saying

he was hanging out next to Matt Barnes. Like of course like Matt Barnes is as visible as Cam Newton if not more at this current junction, right? But then he brought it back to the janitor as an example of an average man. Then then he brought it back to himself within rooms as well. And the thing is is like hey listen if you command a presence you display degrees of masculinity.

 You about your business and your purpose they going to come around irrespective of the status. Now slightly funny story. It just popped into my head when he said Matt Barnes. I’m thinking back to around Philly was my stomping ground back in like my early 20s.

 I remember going to a particular bar within the Philly area and we get up in there and we see these group of girls, right? And it’s me and my boy, we go over and we make contact with them. We talking to them, busting it up, chopping up and these chicks was feeling us, right? Like we was in there like killers, right? We was in there doing our damn thing.

 And then, you know, we get to the point of the conversation and say, you know, so what y’all doing? Like who y’all here with? And then one of the chicks went to me and was like, “Oh, we’re hanging out with them over there.” I said, “Oh, okay.” And she goes, “Oh, that’s Matt Barnes.” And I said, “Okay, now context, I don’t really watch sports like that, so I didn’t know who the tall ass brother was.

” I had to have my boy there say, “Oh, yeah, that he plays in the NBA, da da.” I forget what team that he played with at the time, but I’m like, “Oh, he plays in the NBA.” Like meanwhile, I look up over and he is mean grilling us as if yo why how y’all just going to come in and swoop in and take our chicks, right? So, so I just say that as a funny short story to say that the temptation or the eyes can come at every level depending upon what the chicks are interested in, depending upon what the ladies are interested in and there is always room for negotiation

dependent upon your own obligation. All right. This is This is like 2009 or 10 or something like that. So, I’m dating myself a little bit, but nevertheless, I I’m man, I I work with single mothers with their sons. Yeah. Helping navigate through their father wounds and even mother wounds and failing in school. You think there’s no temptation of women trying to come on me? Come on, son.

We all have temptation. Yeah, but but the degree of temptation he’s not gay, man. I’mma talk. How old are you, Cam? like 53. I’mma turn that around 35. Close. All right. So, you’re you’re young enough to be my son. And I say that respectfully cuz you got an amazing father. Mhm. David told Solomon before he died to show himself a man.

 When I look at you and what you’ve accomplished on the field of football, you’re a warrior, son. I don’t care what position I put you in. You’ll handle it if you trained right. The issue isn’t son that you lack discipline. You showing that you’re here now. You got discipline, right? You got self-control. Look at all you’ve accomplished.

What you lacking is the self-love piece. Oh Things have happened in your life that triggered what’s happening now. the Super Bowl for instance, which I again salute you for being transparent. Everyone can talk about why didn’t he jump on the ball? Why didn’t Now, one thing you said, what you your analogy you were saying, what I can’t relate to.

Yeah. Is being in Super Bowl 50, right? Yes, sir. Beast quarterback. Like my you were my son’s top dog. Yes, sir. I was Everyone was pulling for y’all to win that I knew in my sphere of influence. I ain’t never been in that position. Millions of people watching. Ball gets knocked out of my hand. Just that moment of hesitation like I teach in in fighting self-defense. Guy has a knife.

 This moment of this will get you killed. You got to respond in that moment cuz I watched it again hearing the commentators like now that’s applicable. You put them in that situation, that’s different. That’s high pressure. But I share all of that to say, brother, every man, this is a good analogy, has the ball knocked out of their hand sometime and we hesitate to dive on it.

in life that could be you get a like for me I use myself for example I got my uh wife now Nicole pregnant out of wet lot very dishonorable to her father who was a pastor instead of I I did hesitate it took me over four years to marry this woman I wasted so much time we’ve been married 27 years but I finally dove on the Oh, what I’m saying is, son, is that that situation was so heavy. I’m just watching it today. Mhm.

If you haven’t really unpacked that, like really, he could be getting it will morph into other areas in your life where you hesitate.  I talked to a lot of men about being married. They can love the woman, desire to be with her. They always say, “Well, Mr. Wilson, I need to get a little more money. Mr. Wilson, I need to get this house.

 You know, when maybe when I get this business going, I I’ll go ahead and lock that in.” Mhm. I said, “Me and my wife, we got it together together.” I didn’t have money, a lot of money. My wife was a nurse. You put that together. That’s why the scriptures say, “It’s not good for man to be alone.” The woman in Hebrew, the word helper is Aza, which also means a shield, sucker, support.

 So many of us, when you look at what’s happening in our community, we’re missing that. Especially when studies come out to show that over 80% of millionaires are married. What are we missing? Majority of us is fear. And then the inadequacy piece, the imposttor syndrome. Now when I get married, I can’t be a stoic or she’s going to find out that I’m depressed sometime. She’s going to find out that man, I still struggle with confidence.

This is why I come in and start to talk to Mr. Jason Wilson about what it is that I experience with the modern woman as it exists today. again he found his wife in a time period where raised by a pastor was no internet and had not dated anybody else. Okay, like that is a very unique circumstance, right? Like when you talk about the visibility, the comparison paradox, right? The visibility that is existing on the internet today, the internet culture and the her versus him, right? the the push of feminism and dating apps in modern

behavior, worldly behavior, which is different than traditional customs or culture or societal ideologies that would push to incentivize family structure to parent households. I could keep on going, but nevertheless, it is my defensive nature in being able to appropriately calculate what’s in front of me.

 At the end of the day, I’m naming a bunch of uh societal things, but I have to be able to translate that to my one-on-one conversation with her to understand, do I see too many red flags, too many key indicators? What are the pros versus the cons? And understanding that nobody is perfect out here, not even me. I am nowhere near it. I trust me when I say that.

 But what I fear is is that you give information for to let men maybe think that their decision or indecision to pull that trigger might be wholly on something them versus, you know, a misalignment of virtues or values between him and her. Now, he didn’t point towards that, but I’m just saying I like to offer it a different perspective cuz modern day today is wild. Nevertheless, let’s continue. I’m really not the leader she thinks I am for her to be around me all day long.

That’s why I say, man, it’s not the lack of discipline. Okay, it’s not even self-control. Those are fruits of the seeds that have been planted. So, if you don’t have the right seeds and the right soil, your manifestation over the bad fruit is what we seeing now in so many men. So many men is me. Uh-oh.

 Uh, the example that you gave, self-love as far as the Super Bowl, and I’m trying to um regurgitate, you know, the things that that you kind of mentioned. I did unpack that. Excellent. I think the thing that I have an issue with is I knew and know right from wrong. I just don’t always do right. What the scripture say about that? It’s the basic definition of sin. To know the right thing to do and not do it to him that is sin.

So if I’m talking to you, my son, as a young man of the most high, you got to change that. Yeah. But it also say in the Bible, we all fall short of his glory. But it also says that we are not to abuse his grace. Yeah. And also say we could go back and forth. Yeah. So what does it really come down to? It comes down to who’s really living it. Yeah.

 And who’s just talking it and you can talk it  Jason. But if I ain’t with you every single day, I can’t hold you accountable. Come to Detroit. No, I don’t want to go no Detroit. It’s cold up there. But no, but real talk though. I mean, I hear what you’re saying, but see, again, every case is different. And that’s that’s that’s Listen, brother, there’s there’s always a a principle to everything.

When you look at lust, brother, it’s it just is what it is. It affects all walks of life. It even affected Job that he made a covenant with his eyes that he wouldn’t look lustfully at a woman and they don’t dress the way they do now as they did back then. That’s not realistic in my life though. What’s not realistic? To not look at a woman. No. Lust. Lustfully was the key word.

 Yeah, but how can you control if you look at fear of Yah is the beginning of all wisdom and knowledge. See, you’re if we were if we were coaching, right? And I’m I’m saying, Cam, man, I need you to and I’m Look, I’m not a fanatic. I don’t I’m not in the sports.

 So, I’m trying to make So, if I don’t sound like I know football, forgive me, brother. Trust me, I got But if my play is Cam, I need you to uh quarterback sneak it from the 20 yardd line to the 50. That’s a hell of a touch. now. Mhm. Where you’re communicating with me. I can’t do that. I ain’t never been That’s ridiculous. It’s impossible to do that. No, I never said it’s impossible. I’m just That’s not realistic.

 If it’s not realistic, meaning it can’t happen, right? And people do it. If it’s not realistic, we got him. Got him in a blender. Do you know my reality? Yeah. Tell me. Tell me your reality. Okay. I have three baby mamas. Okay. Right. Do I need some paper and a pen? No, you don’t. I’m just messing. I’m just joking, man. You feel me? Yeah. Come on. Three baby mas. Yes, sir. I’ve been labeled a homebreaker.

Mhm. Um, why you creating broken homes? Why you ain’t marrying none of these women? it I find this fascinating because he’s talking about the repercussions or the consequences of his public image through the choices and decisions that he’s made whereas Jason is talking about the mindset that would have avoided any of that.

 So is he saying that now because he’s at this point in life and he’s already made these decisions that hey  I’m just this is just it. There ain’t no room to grow baby this is it. And here’s the thing which I think kind of confuses me within this discussion is is that and we don’t know because we don’t know you know Cam Newton’s actual thoughts you know outside of the image of perspective is is he truly happy right like if you’re living life in a way that is truly discipline excuse me truly joyful a life that you are truly proud of that you don’t go back later and regret any of the major decisions in

your life hopefully the conversation goes there cuz I would want to understand that if you know if he gives a truthful reaction to that. But the reality that you have that covenant with your wife 25 26 years 27 27 your your journey is completely different than my journey. All right.

 I’ve always stood on this principle because like I said I know right from wrong. I just don’t always do right. Okay. I had a great figure of what marriage and love was in my household. Okay. So much so I always said I grew up with three parent household. My mom, my dad, my grandmother.

 My grandmother ne I’d never seen my grandmother with another man outside of her deceased husband. She was a widow. I never seen her seductive. I even never seen her flirt. Never seen her even let another man touch her respectfully. I knew these things. But as you unpack your reality and you know marrying is always a goal, not the goal, it’s a goal. What do you mean? You pointed to something.

 What do you mean by what did you point like it’s it’s it’s a part of the journey. It’s like a checkpoint. Okay. Let me let me let me go back then. Um first I want to clarify. Um I know the right things to do as well and don’t always do it. Hence why we have repentance in the blood of Christ. All right. I wanted to make that clear. Like I’m not sitting here like I get it all right all the time.

Yeah. Yeah. As far as falling in that area of a lack of self sexual self-control. I’ve been fighting really hard to maintain where I am. I want to finish strong. Mhm. Now, let’s just say, okay, um my life isn’t the same as yours. Okay. Mhm.

 I would agree the fact that you can go maybe to the mall and women just throw themselves at you, right? I got to go back to who we are in Yah. If you in Yah. Mhm. All right. To whom much is given, much is required. If you got much more, you’ve been entrusted with much more. Much more will be demanded.

 This is You can’t just blush brush that off, right? because you’re telling me your life is different than mine, which is almost an you’re not saying it’s excuse for sinning, but listen, we all sin greater than the next one. Hebrews 10:26. The one who willingly sins, willingly is the key word, there no longer remains a sacrifice for his sins. So if I go out here and kill everybody in this room and don’t repent, where am I going, brother? It is written that our name could be taken out of the book of life. Mhm. So I I go back again.

 You have been given and entrusted with much. You have to much is given much more will be demanded. What Uncle Ben say? With great power comes great responsibility. That’s essentially what he’s saying in a sense of, you know, take it out of Cam Newton. Let’s go to Shannon Sharp about to get signed that $40 million deal.

 He is through the value that he’s created throughout his life is going to be given much more power. So there’s much more responsible decisions and actions and choices that he has to make within that. And he was not appropriately strategically calculating all of the risks within his life. I’m not saying that.

 And I don’t want people to, especially you as as we’re having this conversation, I don’t want people to take that as I’m better than or it’s I’m sorry. Can I just be clear? I’m sorry. I don’t want you to misconrue what I’m saying. You just when we met before here, you’re not you don’t even give that vibe, brother. Yes, sir. All right. I didn’t mean it.

 I What I’m meaning is when you say my your life is different than mine. I’m talking about the temptation. Let’s stay on topic. So, that’s all I’m saying, brother. It’s a gift. Mhm. Of who you are, what you’ve been through, and your influence. Right. Yeah. To demonstrate. It’s supposed to be used for the kingdom. Yes. Samson’s strength was for the kingdom.

But he laid with the wrong woman, Delilah. Yeah. And she took him out. And he prayed, “Ah, but give me strength one more time, and I’ll crush all these Philistines. He died before his time.” The scripture says, “You be overly foolish, you’ll die before your time.” Unfamiliar. Yeah.

 So, that’s all I’m saying to you is this. I agree with you. I can’t sit here and say people will recognize me, but if you walk somewhere publicly and I walk walk somewhere publicly, I may get to where I’m going. No, I will get to where I’m going faster than you would. People will stop you.

 I think I was saying that to the individual that are not graceful with what has happened, right? Going back to the Shannon Sharp situation. Well, for me as I’m talking about my reality, right, knowing right from wrong and not always choosing right, my fear of divorce is greater than my desire to get married. Okay, he’s switching topics to a degree. I think we can stop it right here. Wait, let me just see. I appreciate you saying that.

 Okay, you just identified one issue that’s stopping you. But we know God didn’t give us a spirit of fear. He gave us a spirit of power, love, and self-control. Or in him, not a human. What you mean? Like like in what? In him. In him what? I I believe in him to what? You just said you my fear of divorce is greater than the than my desire to get married. To get married. Okay. I heard we going to pause the conversation right here.

 You know, if you guys like this conversation and like to break down the commentary, maybe I’ll go on and continue on going through kind of this next stage of the conversation. But it seems as though it is moved from this original topic of lust and decision-m on top of that.

 I thought it was really interesting the last section as well in it being that where great power calls for greater responsibility and I kind of hit it from a Shannon Sharp perspective what new responsibilities that he has to be tied to and think through as he’s assessing risk around him but I also think the subpoint as it refers to Cam Newton is to say you know the great power and the status and the influence comes the great responsibility of changing history Right? He gave the example before as you know the slave owners would say mate with such and such in order to bring a new life a new slave into this world and then the generational jumps of you know what that

might materialize into in modern times today. It’s like he’s sort of tasking Cam with the identification of what’s going wrong in order to I guess sort of like break the cycle or at least to show publicly what it could look like if a man is conducting himself with that degree of discipline.

 Woo! This was some good content, baby. I didn’t think we was going to get all of this. And I love being able to go over content like this. uh especially content that makes me think more about my choices, my decisions and you know what I’m deciding to do with you know the couple of years on this planet that I have and that we all have. All right, so guys, if you enjoyed this conversation, leave me a comment down below.

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